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@trying1tohelp1 Yes, locations is a huge problem. He agreed to stay in the city he was in, and I agreed to move there, but hegot a job in a different city and moved there after I had already got a job in our original city we agreed on. Now he doesn't even pick the boys up from school or let them...

@gegeez22 Yeah I'm pretty calm about it to my kids - they hear the "different rules at different places" a lot, and "mommy doesn't mind what they say, it doesnt hurt my feelings, so don't let it bother you". They're no dumb though so it's hard to navigate they're questions, but I think I'm...

@vavas Yeah I'm very careful with how I talk around my kids and especially around them. I did say that almost exactly - "well he wanted to wear it so I didnt mind." My boys pick up on their dad being a bit mean, they always tell me what is said at dads house. I just respond with " well as long...

@lorre Yeah I had to post on here otherwise I'd probably my just internalize it and feel like shit even more. So frustrating doing everything on my own - and none of my friends have kids or ex husband's lol

@bluecoke541 That's what's frustrating, they aren't around while I try and get my kids up at 6am and ready for daycare, or when I get home at 5:30 and have to get homework, dinner, cleaning and as much quality time as possible before bedtime.

@katrina2017 She has 2 kids, but she has a TON of help from her family, daycare isnt a thing, and my ex helps take care of them when he is on his rotating schedule. She doesnt work til 9 and doesn't work full time...

@dw1989 Yeah I do have times when I feel bad, my life has improved massively and he now has 2 step kids full time... I'm pretty well off and lucky lol

This is gonna be kind of rambling, bear with me, I dont have a support system and need some support/advice and just somewhere to vent. Visitation schedule: weekdays with me, weekends with dad. (did this originally because he complained that he didn't know how to deal with commuting and doing...