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    Husband won’t open a joint account…. Thoughts?

    @pr0cessa So, I think you should compare your situation to mine—my husband didn’t want to fully merge our finances, and I agreed with that, so we opened one joint account and kept our separate accounts. Then I quit my job to stay home, which was not originally part of our plan. We still did...
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    I didn’t negotiate when I should have. Is 8 months too early to ask for a raise?

    @isaiah9six Thank you so much, that is such a great way to frame it and it makes me feel so much more comfortable with the idea!!
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    I didn’t negotiate when I should have. Is 8 months too early to ask for a raise?

    When my daughter was born I quit my tech job and stayed home for a year. I was making about 90k previously. My job was completely burning me out and I had a really toxic manager, I was miserable. When I decided to go back to work I was not feeling confident in my value having been out of a job...
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    “Why didn’t you remind me?” -My Husband

    @infomommax Not your fault. You explicitly told him you would not remind him again. He is a big boy, he speaks English, he chose to disregard you and it’s disrespectful. He needs to learn the hard way apparently. I’ve had to do this at times as well, and it does work! Natural consequences baby.
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    Today I decided to stop parenting my spouse

    @axdxs I stopped folding my husbands laundry when I am short on time and energy. I got cheap pop up hampers from the store and I put his clean clothes in them unfolded, and put them in his office to deal with 😂 he has never complained about it, just wears the clothes straight from the hamper. 🤷🏼‍♀️
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