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@veganhippie I want three maybe even 4 kids and won't start until after 30. My mom had 5 kids without issues from 30-40 so I'm not too worried.

@veganhippie Nothing quite like it. ❤️ Yes, it can be very expensive, but part of the reason I waited as long as I did was so I could maximize my chances of being able to afford a third or possibly fourth!

@cisty You can have a 3 year age gap with four kids in 10 years. 10 years is definitely a long time to be in baby mode! I am 1 of 5 and I don't know how my parents did it (we all went to college and graduated with no debt) but I'm hoping I can at least do 3. I loved being part of a big family...

@cisty If you got pregnant at 30 you can have 4 kids between 30 and 40 and space your pregnancies a little over 2 years apart. I'm not encouraging anyone to do this, but if people are reading and, like me, plan to start after 30 and want a bigger family, please don't get discouraged! You can...

@dan2804 I'm sorry, this is an impossible decision. Do you have access to couple's therapy? No one can tell you what the right decision is for you, but I think talking through your husband's feelings on kids with a professional would be helpful, I'm unclear on what made him go from wanting...