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@73552 Oh yeah. Definitely attend to their needs and give them all the love etc, just when they lose their shit it’s ok and allowed. When my baby cries I panic and so I have to work really hard to self regulate so she can tell me what she needs and calm down too.

@73552 Yes!!! According to Janet Lansbury not getting stressed about their feelings and outbursts is the key to it all.

@sfa Lollll yes we just kind of let it happen and she eventually falls asleep. If she actually needs something she yells with no singing, so I think it’s just part of her process. She’s 3 months old and started doing it maybe 2 weeks ago.

@73552 Babies are total trolls but this seems to work for us as well. If she’s full, changed, the right temperature and tired she will usually fall asleep after some yell singing (hers not ours) lying in her crib.

@tiramisu No advice just solidarity. There are so many good reasons to stick with one (resources and quality of life) but I love my baby and our family and everything about being a parent and will need to go through a grieving process if this is the last/only time I’ll have a baby.

@jakelab (Personal bias is for one and done) When you live your day to day life, do you see yourself with another baby/toddler/kid? Planning for a future that may or may not exist doesn’t seem like the best reason to have another although I know it’s a common refrain. We’re in a similar...