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@memrin Thanks very much and yeah 100% I usually distract him from his mothers distractions but I follow the Order and hence why a comprehensive very detailed Order is best. Even this past week the alarm went off on my phone ie "child's name" phone call in 15 minutes, and he saw it on my phone...

Also imho forget about the candy, breakfast and communication, it should be done on a parenting app and the parenting time should obviously be respected as my parenting time my rules.

@memrin Completely agree with poster acan..... and right off the hop I saw exactly what was happening re these calls. I respectfully understand and appreciate what the other posters are saying and it is valid to some degree but I believe that they are not looking at the entire picture here and I...

@goldenmindset I only have two weekly calls aside from my 1/3 parenting time and in Court trying to get Zoom calls. His mom distracts him and signals him to end the call over and over. My strategy ( besides trying to get an Order re Zoom calls at our next Court date) is simply too engage him...

@audranne I went through the same the last few years, our son is 7 1/2 now. I do not engage with that behaviour of his mom and I simply say I love you, how much I love you, you exist and I love you and do not go down the road putting her in the middle of us. They are very intuitive and smart...

@audranne How old is the child please

@dyydxx Agreed fully with FJ, ball is in your court so a) protect child b) get your Orders in Court You should also document everything obviously and also protect yourself via writing an email to him. The email will be used with counsel and also be read by the Judge so write email for that...

@ryanafshar Just saying but decision making does not mean one can change parenting time. If that was the case then the decision making parent would be able to trump any and all parenting time whenever they want. I was just in Court for a conference and the other parent's lawyer tried something...

@kimberl321 You are human, but the day I cut off hi, bye or anything, was historic

@kimberl321 Because of the feelings that are there, either him, you or both on and off I think it will be hard to change and adjust. One look, one moment, when you may be tired, is all it takes, and it happens fast. I was thinking is this forever because I really do not want to see her at all...

@kimberl321 Get a comprehensive Court Order including using a parenting app and an Order for exchanges. Exchanges should be child centric and your child is old enough to leave one parent and walk to the other. Make exchanges fast and no talking. It will get better once you stock to the boundries

@ryanafshar The medical decision was made but now parenting time is parenting time, no? Decision making does not mean she can dictate anything on your parenting time, imo