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@blondebriana Thank you.... and no I certainly don't want more anything w her. Of course it hurts what she did to me but I told her I could get past it. It's what she's doing to my son that kills me. Especially when he asks for her over n over. At this point I put her on block as hard as it...

@lily_lost U read my mind. Imma hit up Alanon and CoDa on my days off. And yes she knows I have a soft spot for her she manipulates that.

@lily_lost Well I didn't know she was using the few times she saw him without me. I stopped sending her money a while ago. Even told her not to bother paying it back since it won't happen but she swears by it then it doesn't happen. But yeah I'm hearing how difficult it is. The good thing...

Yep did this too. When our son was born she tested positive for drugs and because she was promiscuous they ordered a test and found I was the father. I got put on the. Are too but I won back my rights in 8 months. They terminated her visits due to lack of attendance to supervised visits...

@heavensvoice There's been plenty of opportunities. In fact everyone I know is saying I'm too nice. I'm the one who tries to get her on the phone to video the baby. I'm the one who reminds her of visits and practically blows her phone up when Baby is ask8ng for her. I'm always trying to make...

@katrina2017 Can't really say either answer is good to hear but this tells me I'm not being too extreme. It's all pretty hard to accept as I'm just finding out she got 2 other dudes. But I know what I need to do. I don't want my son remembering that she was here once and chose these other men...

@sweetbabyjames That's what I'm saying she is making her decision. Flaked on two visits since that post once again had my son wondering where she was. Most of the time when I ask if he wants to talk to Mommy he says no I tell him nicely "that's not nice let's say night night to mommy n I call...

@abbysweet And then there's the violent drug using crowd she keeps around her. She has her own anger issues which I've mentioned. A lot of the times she has had him alone she calls me within hours asking when ill be there cuz she's losing it. There's so many layers to this. It's not "oh u...

@heavensvoice Thank you so much. I want to get involved in shit to find a healthy partner after I spend a little time with just my son. And yes it took me 4 tries and 3 visits to jail and one to rehab to get clean. This is what has me holding out hope til it gets worse

@abbysweet I never said she was living with us. No the issue is drugs, abandonment, violence, drug using company she keeps around. Read the other replies for an elaboration. It's all of the other stuff.

@humbleservant46 Yes we were together until this. No this is not in response to the cheating. Sure the cheating hurt but my reason for wanting to sever rights, as I mentioned if u read, is to stop the damage that is and will continue to occur. Her constant in n out fashion is not good for...

Tldr; I'm a 4 yr clean former addict with full custody of my 3 yr old. Sons mom is an addict. Tried for years to be patient understanding. This was try number 4 for her to be a somewhat decent somewhat present parent. Doing good then went to shit. Stupid me believed every word and thought...