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Thanks to everyone that shared their personal stories and experiences with me! I am truly grateful for all of your advice and suggestions. It’s great to have a space to come to for things like this(: you all have helped so much. Thanks again!

@bowell LOL I feel this 😊 thanks for the reassurance!

@mfey I come from a family of 5 so I totally get how sibling dynamics can affect us profoundly. That being said I am close with mine and I know how great that can be as a child, but the adult in me says 1 is good for me lol I actually also didn’t want children for a long time and then I went to...

@delejayn Hopefully we can create the same experience for my daughter too! Super reassuring (: good luck with your babies 😊 and thanks for sharing!

@nolf I get that! Right now I feel the same way. I just hope my daughter is content with just us 3 too(:

@namelesshero What a wonderful life they gave you 🥹this helps tremendously thank you once again!

@namelesshero Thanks for the reassurance. Is there anything that stands out to you about how your parents raised you that you will do for your child too?

@phs Yup that totally makes sense. Hopefully they become close as they get older!

@aquariusprime Yes I’ll remember this! Thank you 😊

@sondao Oof 😓 that such a difficult situation. I’m going to consider this. I wish it wasn’t so hard for children on the spectrum and their siblings. Thanks so much for your advice (:

@wmusic Yes will do! Luckily my friends have also started having children so she’ll have some kids to be around at least. Thanks for your input 😊

@kaygie So true! I guess I just like to be well informed and plan for what may come I know ultimately it’s my choice but I hate suprises and there’s so much that’s coming from this post that I didn’t even really think about. I’m so glad I asked because I think I now have a better understanding...

@trevorr10 It’s such a relief to hear that. Hopefully my daughter feels the same way 😊

@runnerguy Wow what an awful situation to have to go through! Both your sister and your babies birth couldn’t have been easy. It’s such a gamble really and idk that I’m prepared for that right now. Thanks for your input (:

@sakhi What a sweet baby girl you’re raising (: these are the kinds of things that make me think maybeeeeeee one more lol but ultimately still unsure. Thank you so much 😊 good luck with baby number 2 !

@tonya22673 Wow super deep! For me one and done is much more appealing but I think time and how my baby reacts to being just us is what will ultimately give me my answer. Thanks for this (:

@infomommax As long as she’s happy that’s all I’m really worried about. Hopefully she likes being an only tho fingers crossed! 😬

@pandyreturnshuzzah Kids are DEFINITELY HARD! lol I get it. This is why the decision is that much harder. Thanks for your input (:

@nharmsen Oh my! What a plot twist! I couldn’t imagine going from 3 to 5 in such a short amount of time. Definitely not ready right now or maybe ever lol but yes the special needs/high maintenance is something to think about and that we often forget. Thanks so much for your advice(: good luck...

@infernum Awww thanks so much! What a blessing to experience having a child. I forget how lucky I am to say that. My postpartum was rough too. It’s a huge part of why the second just doesn’t make sense right now. Thank you for your input and love and support 🫶🏽