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    6w pregnant with our first and only, the first challenge to OAD popped up and was slammed down

    @godschild29 Honestly!! Not even the first time I’ve heard a comment like that, but this was the first time it was directed at me. No fucking way
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    6w pregnant with our first and only, the first challenge to OAD popped up and was slammed down

    @deusvult92 Right? And she is the mother of an only child. I was absolutely fucking floored that she said that.
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    6w pregnant with our first and only, the first challenge to OAD popped up and was slammed down

    @lisaxo Sure that makes sense - I was joking with my OB when I said it but she is very open to allowing women to get tubal ligation at any point, kids or no, so luckily that won’t be a problem for me!
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    6w pregnant with our first and only, the first challenge to OAD popped up and was slammed down

    @heismerciful Not the first time I’ve heard someone suggest to have a second kid as a “spare” and every time it’s super weird and off putting
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    6w pregnant with our first and only, the first challenge to OAD popped up and was slammed down

    @stacy86 I 100% agree with all your reasoning for being OAD - I feel the exact same way!! My husband I talked about maybe being interested in fostering in the future or if we were unable to conceive, but it’s going to be our decision together whenever the time is right for us
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    6w pregnant with our first and only, the first challenge to OAD popped up and was slammed down

    @stacy86 Yes there are so many options if you CHOOSE, not just to have a spare or replacement. Ugh.
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    6w pregnant with our first and only, the first challenge to OAD popped up and was slammed down

    @123wc Oh god so fucking sorry you had to deal with that all the way to the end, I could not imagine!
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    6w pregnant with our first and only, the first challenge to OAD popped up and was slammed down

    @homebass Glad to hear it! A friend of mine who is child free also got the bilateral salpingectomy for that exact reason
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    6w pregnant with our first and only, the first challenge to OAD popped up and was slammed down

    I told my sister that I jokingly asked my OB to go ahead and tie my tubes while she’s down there if I do have to have a c-section, and my sister said “well, at least wait until they survive past the risk of SIDS to tie your tubes” Idk if it’s just the raging nausea that burned up all my fucks...
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