@bigred009 I honestly don't understand why you even put up with his behaviour for this long. It's completely unacceptable, and I am shocked that it is not illegal yet.
My thoughts go out to you during this difficult time, OP.
@neverbeenalone We were team crib, but then she started trying to get out before she even turned 2, lol. We bought her a mattress and have it on the floor now. No bedframe until she's a bit bigger and not popping off the end like a fish.