@binibiningkim This. For us the first 5 or so years is hard, then so so much easier (sleep is important haha). I go back and forth on whether or not the next five years would break me if we had a third.
@chery49 She’s 40 though, I’m a bit older and wish I’d done it sooner - but to be fair, I just really was too overwhelmed. Helps a ton when they’re both potty trained sleeping through the night etc.
@muya I have the opposite issue. I know I have a tendency to opt for hard mode so need to be sure I’m not leaning yes in part for that reason. Because even though I do it, I know it’s absurd.