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@nathann "Were you trying to have twins?" "That was lucky that they had to stay in the NICU and you could recover from your C-section without having to take care of babies" about my babies born at 30 weeks from PPROM. I have gotten variations of #2 more than once.

@balancedworld What has helped me is the theory of "good enough mother" instead perfect parenting. Donald Winnicott has written about this. I will also link to the study that says caregivers need only "get it right" 50 percent of the time when responding to babies' need for attachment to have a...