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    14 yo son called me a b***h

    @abovethewaves Yep it’s unacceptable. I would say something like, I’m sorry your frustrated. We can talk about how to solve your problems. Name calling is always unacceptable. Words hurt and we need to use them carefully.
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    How to address cutting

    @orthodoxserb I’m just talking from my experience. It was last week, so of course we will see.
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    How to address cutting

    @auburnsky I will if it persists. It is a recent thing. He learned it from a girl in his youth program that was treated in a psych hospital.
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    How to address cutting

    @mark419 I'm sorry you are going through this. My FS (19) was doing this. I told him that it was not allowed in my house in no uncertain terms, then I empathized with everything he was going through (for like an hour I just reflected back to him all the difficult things he has dealt with), he...
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    I got Taylor Swift tickets for me and my 14 y.o. daughter and she doesn’t want me to go

    @noelotus2 And the coworker probably would not be thrilled
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    Deep breath and here we go

    @carlosbroch Let him make the decision. But if he wants to do it definitely let him. Again it doesn’t sound like he has a time problem. He just needs help staying on top of his assignments
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    Deep breath and here we go

    @carlosbroch It sounds like he has more of a structure than a time problem. He needs a tutor to help him keep on track or you to check in with him about what is assigned and to remind him to turn things in. I would let him do the drum line. It’s important he remain engaged in as many things and...
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    My daughter failed 9th grade and I do not know what to do about it

    @farmerdex Ufff. You sound pretty harsh here. Let her go to summer school. 14 year olds, even the ones that excel, need lots of time and support. Sounds like boarding school would be the best option. Maybe you can find a scholarship
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    I need help with being consistent with chores

    @nicholas29 Give them some flexibility to fail and try to stay as consistent as possible just in insisting they do things
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