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    Childless friend keeps telling me I’ll regret not having two

    @katrina2017 Its actually really nice to hear you had such a positive experience being an only child. My partner is an only child and often says how lonely he was, which does make me worry about our son and if he'll truly be happy. But, just like you, we also had trouble conceiving. 5 years of...
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    Childless friend keeps telling me I’ll regret not having two

    @libbyhayden I'm so sorry you had to experience that, I think I'll have to give that a go. She's mostly very supportive but this all stems from when her husband moved the goal posts (he promised once she started a new teaching job they'd try, and now he's in it he said he wants to wait until...
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    Childless friend keeps telling me I’ll regret not having two

    @stronglady She doesn’t want to do daycare. She wants a big family and to be a stay at home mum. She’s also not happy I don’t breast feed and occasionally stick my son in his bouncer with the TV on for 10 mins as I need to take a call with a client or do something for work that requires my full...
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    Childless friend keeps telling me I’ll regret not having two

    @sharpsolaris But he owes it to his grandson to at least visit him. Doesn't want to help, fine. But he never visits him and we live a 10 minute drive away. It's not just about help, it's about me wanting him to have a relationship with his grandson, like I had with my grandparents.
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    Childless friend keeps telling me I’ll regret not having two

    @sharpsolaris I realise how entitled I sound about my dad and wishing he’d help more. My issue with him is that he heavily relied on my grandparents for childcare and support. He had my grandmother take care of us, clean his house and make his meals for him. He even had me and my brothers spend...
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    Childless friend keeps telling me I’ll regret not having two

    @calpastor She actually does keep saying she wants a baby sooner rather than later (she knows we've had trouble with an ectopic and miscarriages so I know thats also spooked her) I have explained to her, and to her husband who is far more understanding, how its not right for us. But this...
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    Childless friend keeps telling me I’ll regret not having two

    @calpastor Her husband actually defends me and tells her to stop. I think she’s so desperate for a baby she doesn’t realise how strained she’s making me feel. I just feel like no one is really getting how tough it is. I don’t regret my son - I want to make that clear I absolutely adore him - but...
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    Childless friend keeps telling me I’ll regret not having two

    My friend, who is childless, keeps telling me I will regret not having another baby. My son is 9 months and is a happy, cheeky crazy little boy. But it’s been hard. We’ve had no help or support from family (my mum died, my dad refuses as he’s “done raising kids”, husbands mum lives 2 hours away...
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