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@petermushk You moved into their space 4 months ago and you find it appropriate to dole out a punishment? You’ve neglected to explain what these punishments are, so before I can give you honest advice. I need to know what are these punishments? Off the cuff or not; you are not in a position to...

@petermushk I found your other comment about food and cleaning. I’m going address the food portion first, I don’t agree with using food as punishment or referring to it as “good” or “bad” or “permitted”. Girls especially at this age develop eating disorders, food is used to cope with stress. The...

@petermushk Well first, you should absolutely take her threats seriously. Second, you are not married and it sounds like you are just entering into this situation. You should NOT be providing ANY Judgement, discipline or punishments in your role until you are a stable trusted person to these...

@petermushk Do not send this girl off to a behavioral camp. You have not been in these girls lives long enough to even suggest sending this girl off for exposure therapy. She needs her mother. She is lashing out for attention because she’s 12, her behaviors are normal for a 12 yr old going...