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@sagat4 The worse assault was last summer. It is the one he has pictures of and witnesses but don't know if it is too late for that one?

@taz77777 I've never been there when it happened or I really would call the police. And he refuses to press charges. I mean she could have caused an accident beating him with her shoe while he was driving too. I just don't even know where to go or what to do with this

@sagat4 I wasn't there so he would have to be the one to do it. And you can't really tell a 22 year old man what to do. i gave him my empathy, my love, my opinion and than I shut up. I dont' want to drive him away because he feels like he has to "choose". Am I wrong?

@taz77777 I told him that he should consider calling the police as there were witnesses, and that he had enough to get a restraining order on her, but "he loves her" and she "only does it when she is drunk". I told him I have been stupid drunk before and never hit anyone in my life but he just...

@palesa Her claiming to be the victim, is my worse fear. He is quite a bit bigger than her and I can just see her turning on the water works if cops came. I am absolutely furious, and feel broken at the same time. He has such a soft and tender heart. I just wish he could see how abnormal this is.

@kgb52 I'm so sorry :-( What would it take for you to love yourself enough to leave? Please think about it.

@yellowbird12 Great points. Thank you. I think that I will ask him to come home, and I am also going to strongly encourage him to press charges.

@taz77777 I advised him to immediately get a restraining order. I guess he has pictures of the worse beating. I didn't ask to see them because I thought I would break down or go nuts if I did. He just doesn't want to even consider it :-(

@sagat4 Some really good ideas, thank you. I am his Mom. Do you think I should tell my exhusband, his father? I don't even know if I could fake being nice to her now. I am seriously thinking about "calling in sick" for Christmas, but of course I want to be there for him and I want to see him...

@spiningcompass I advised him to get a restraining order but he just wouldn't even consider it. I guess he has pic's of the worst beating, and a lot of witnesses. I guess he has to come to it on his own but I don't even know how to cope until he does.

My son is 22 and his g.f. is 21. They have been living together for around two years. They got in an argument this weekend and I caught the tail end of it that she had been going off on him while he was driving, and was literally beating him with her shoe while he was driving and refused to get...