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@rlneub It has changed alot since this. Thank you for your input! I'm hoping the new version does a better job. I try very hard to not be combative for if and or when we end up in court.

Small update she thinks the kids should get a fresh start because of divorce memories. Essentially. She said" negative memories."

@marcell I assume projection. There is no real reason that im aware of. we live in a great, mostly safe small town. Very little crime, etc. She does average in school, perhaps a bit behind, as mom does not enforce hw or anything very well. Always seems from my side like she is trying to be...

@osakazuki Oh wow. Understandable! I'm sorry it was rough. In this case though I'm thinking it's not the right move. She has great friends here and all the toxicity has moved away. The only family left here is supportive and non manipulative. It really is a warm and supportive environment! Thank...

@osakazuki I'm confused. In your first comment you said you appreciated the move. In this one it sounds like you didnt.

@reflex99 I am inclined to agree. Though I'm fairly certain she is a resilient kid. I have serious concerns about moving her cross country away from everything she knows. Luckily, when we moved here, she hadn't started school yet. But I think this, among other things, is what made my eldest life...

@eternum Thank you for the well wishes! I've not had to involve a lawyer the whole time yet. She's tried to take me to court for custody and more child support and lost both times. I don't think she is stupid enough to just make a run for it. Fairly certain she knows that I'd have to agree! But...

@eternum Yes she could stay at the same school. Though she is about to move to middle school also and we are in a small town so either way middle and high there is only one. Also yes there is a formal custody agreement she is custodial currently. However it is 50/50.

So we divorced 2018, and we moved to NM, where we are now for X to be near her family and support structure. Since then, most of her family has moved elsewhere. She has at least one brother who lives in KY and keeps bringing up moving there. Her reasoning is "a fresh start for the children." we...