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    How do people afford kids????

    @mercifulwoman I would have a few more serious discussions about budgeting and pricing out projects/supplies before they’re purchased. He really can’t be overspending so often like that, it’s just not sustainable.
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    How do people afford kids????

    @mercifulwoman Hmmm it seems to boil down to a priorities thing. He prioritizes home improvement more than you. Which is fine that he does and fine that you don’t, but you do need to find common ground. The solution shouldn’t be for him to completely disregard the budget. Definitely don’t start...
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    How do people afford kids????

    @mercifulwoman They don’t. That’s the reality. Most average families are barely scraping by. They live paycheck to paycheck, have little to no savings, and rely heavily on credit. I’ve been struggling with the same thoughts recently. We’ll be bringing in about $120k before taxes next year and...
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    WTT worries solved by semi TTC?

    @urbanglorycampaigns There's no such thing as semi TTC. You are or you aren't! If you don't want to get pregnant now, use a reliable form of contraception. If you're not actively preventing pregnancy, you're trying to get pregnant. All this "just see what happens" nonsense is truthfully a red...
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    Struggling treating 2 yr old’s chronic constipation

    @lorenzomcgoo Miralax is only recommended for short term use to resolve occasional constipation and isn’t really supposed to be used long term as a dietary supplement. Your baby needs more fiber from real food sources! Fruits, vegetables, beans, etc etc. Also, echoing what others said, more...
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    How do people afford kids????

    @rightway2truth Ohhh an HSA! If you have low healthcare needs and can afford any out of pocket expenses that come up, an HSA can actually be used as a great investment tool since you get a triple tax loophole!
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    How do people afford kids????

    @ashdorkable Yes, good point! Also, healthcare (if you live in the US), is often provided through your employer. That’s one of the biggest parts of my compensation package worth over $1k/month!
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    WTT until summer, what was your plan during the WTT?

    @mandm I'm working on strength training, specifically my core and back. Also, I'm taking an adult ballet class for fun! Working on further strengthening our marriage. Getting some projects done around the house! Don't forget to still do things you enjoy and focus on yourself and also your...
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