@poppa51 Just because it's not her first doesn't mean she's an expert on everything and does everything perfectly. Lots of people do everything wrong with ALL of their kids, lol.
@katrina2017 This is a very interesting side I've never heard about before...how do the children experience trauma from not being with bio parents? I'm in the same position as OP so this definitely something to keep in mind.
@henry_ My understanding is you start the intervals over again. I only ever went in if he was REALLY crying, I just left him alone if he was fussy but not too upset.
@grace93 Didn't she say it would be the ultimate honor or ultimate sacrifice to die during childbirth? WHY would you purposely continue getting pregnant, knowing it could leave your children without their mother??