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@marshipan hopefully we won't need to involve judges...

@danny0101 thanks! it's nice to hear. there is always a temptation to be selfish but we're trying, let's see if we can keep it up!

@nyr94 I think that will work if I was going to develop a new relationship (like my ex) but for the time being a full weekend alone makes me sad, I'm also an expact with no other family here, whilst he's from here. so the situation is not completely balance overall...

@hal4x that would be smart but we also wanted to avoid a situation where one of us has a whole weekend without seeing the kids, and we would like to maintain some regular weekdays so we don't need to check which week in the cycle it is all the time we need to arrange a work meeting or plan...

my ex and I are trying to identify a fair rota where we stay with the kids 50:50, we enjoy equal weekend nights of freedom (fri and sats at alternating weeks), we tend to maintain a similar pattern every week (e.g. I always have them on Mon and Tues, he always have them on Wed and thurs, for...