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    when did you have your first?

    @christinak Thank you, truly. My second was my favorite pregnancy. Three was where my health fell to pieces lol. Listen to your heart. I just knew with two I needed three. And even before a lot of the bad health stuff I knew I was done at three. Good luck
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    when did you have your first?

    @guitarofgod Had my first at 31 (3 kids, 3.5 yrs from first to last). My body has given out. I don’t know if it’s all due to pregnancy, we have a lot of other things going on too (we move almost every year with military and that is literally killing me). I like the comparative financial...
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    Guardians/Estate Planning?

    @river518 You should just ask. Nearly anyone doesn’t plan on immediately adopting 4 children but an emergency and family may make someone feel differently. My dad doesn’t want any more children. But he’s really the only option if something happens to my husband and I so him and his wife would...
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    How do you stay calm all day?

    @ajewelinhiscrown I make everyone have quiet nap time in the afternoon. Even my 4.5 yr old has a rest hour up there and then he has to quietly watch TV until the younger two wake up. It gives me time to sit for a minute and get things done, including working out. Lifting some weights and yoga...
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    Teaching Skills with 3+ ?

    @shahrukh I’ve considered sacrificing a room as an arts and crafts room. I went to public school and the art room was always a room as tiled as it could be and completely covered in splatter of all kind. But alas we rent 😔
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    90% of conversations I provide aren’t focused on myself and I’m kinda of tired of that

    @cliffusngmg1 Oh yea I get that. Can you pick up a small hobby that is of interest to both you and hubby? Like a video game or book or something that you can do in the evenings after kiddo goes to bed? I found that my problem was that I literally had nothing to talk about because I never did...
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    I wish my husband hated his job so he would like us more

    @sophie0813 You might think about how you message things to him too, that’s fair. But at some point he just has to deal with little kids being frustrating. He made them.
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    I wish my husband hated his job so he would like us more

    @sophie0813 I recently had to have a come to Jesus talk with my husband. Ages here are 2, 4 and 5 and husband is/was angry and seemed to hate being around us all the time. Problem is he travels a lot and when he’s gone the house is beautiful harmony. He is the angry voice and after years...
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    Talking out his ass

    @staystrongforhim07 I dunno. I didn’t have kids when I went to college and I still had a lot of late nights studying.
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