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@michael8 Thank you for sharing! I am exactly this way, and both are head down. So many women say they’re thankful for the fast recovery of a vaginal birth (because of the immediate recovery period) but what about the long run?? No one tells you how things heals down there afterward! Is it...

@onmywaytoglory Thank you for this!! Completely see the getting up and moving part critical!!

@minimermaid Thank you for sharing! Totally understandable and reasonable, I definitely don’t like the idea of a major surgery. It’s really not having the anxiety of not knowing what could possibly happen!

@jajejllc Thats fair! I definitely hear perineal massage can potentially help reduce the risk but unfortunately it can still happen regardless, from my understanding!

@jajejllc Im a first time mom yes! I’m pretty small as far as hips go- how have things been after a tear like that? These are the things I worry about, I understand it’s not the end of the world and you heal. But do you truly?? Intimacy is extremely important to me, and I just worry it won’t be...

@isidore Thank you for sharing. My OB is very confident in their delivery vaginally, even if breech. I worry about health complications the baby would have if delivered breech. Both are head down now, on one hand I feel like everything will go perfectly smooth, but on the other hand I am...

@jamesrabbit Thank you for sharing. I definitely understand having another little one to look after would have a huge impact on the decision!

@melikeyoubaby Thank you for sharing!! I felt like this at the very beginning and baby B finally did flip around 30 weeks. Which was great news, but the closer I get to delivery the more I question if it’s what I want. I’ve also read that the emergency C-section for baby B is unlikely but I...

@merciet Thank you for sharing! This is what I do like about the idea of a C-section, having a plan in place and not necessarily having the unexpected happen

@merciet Thank you for sharing! This is what I do like about the idea of a C-section, having a plan in place and not necessarily having the unexpected happen.

@nirajrana Interesting! I do wish in a way i had the decision made for me haha

@heavenforme This is EXACTLY my situation and how I feel. Thank you for sharing.

I’ve been feeling so torn between what I want for their birth. If I were having a singleton- it wouldn’t be such a hard decision for me (personally) because I would choose a vaginal birth no questions asked. BUT that being said, I have two babies in me and these are my first babies. I’m...