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@hollybrown Dwelling is not helpful at all, you’re right. It was a long drawn out journey so I’m working with a therapist to get over the outcome and create a positive future for us all. I think to help with adjusting maybe I can have a calendar that shows which days are with me, so that when...

@violet181 I appreciate your perspective. He’s definitely a mamas boy, or in a phase, and Id hate for any response from me to make him feel like it’s not okay to want her. It’s awesome that you and your coparent can discuss openly about the things that go on at each home, and it’s reassuring to...

@spookydawg77 Thanks for this thoughtful response. And what’s funny is, I tell myself these things during times like now when I’m feeling insecure about my place in their lives, but then when it actually happens, I forget all the facts and let my emotions get in the way. I also need to stop...

I’ll try and keep this brief. I’ll also preface this by saying I understand I’m still grieving the loss of my chance at 50/50 custody, so I may be coloring my kid’s words with my own personal feelings for their mother. Backstory: When my kids (newly 5F, almost 6M) were 4 months & 1y, their mom...