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  1. K

    One and done because my partner will never carry the same mental and physical load when it comes to taking care of this child

    @katrina2017 My heart genuinely hurt to read that. What kind of person let’s their kid scream their head off and thinks “yeah it’s cool, babies cry”. I hope you’ve found your better or pray that it comes to you, mama. We both deserve better.
  2. K

    One and done because my partner will never carry the same mental and physical load when it comes to taking care of this child

    @rgl2012 Such a good point. I’m shielding my girl from my own bullshit but I will not raise her in an environment where mom does everything. It’s not right.
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    One and done because my partner will never carry the same mental and physical load when it comes to taking care of this child

    @kurayami I don’t know how our foremothers had 10 kids in a lifetime … the math ain’t mathin’ from a mental health standpoint
  4. K

    One and done because my partner will never carry the same mental and physical load when it comes to taking care of this child

    @tonyp Why am I crying at this? Thank you kind Internet stranger. I’m sad that it’s come to this in the first place.
  5. K

    One and done because my partner will never carry the same mental and physical load when it comes to taking care of this child

    @amcotts And then you have the in laws talking about “oh when you guys have your second” as if your womb and mental health plays second fiddle to the divine right of pushing out and caring for a second child that has the privilege of living in a toxic home with no support. Let me get riiiight on...
  6. K

    One and done because my partner will never carry the same mental and physical load when it comes to taking care of this child

    @susanm Is the bar in hell? I think the bar is in hell. Can someone confirm? Hahah
  7. K

    One and done because my partner will never carry the same mental and physical load when it comes to taking care of this child

    @robbrew1 If I had a nickel for every time that I recommended medication and therapy in our conversations I would be a billionaire. You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it go to therapy.
  8. K

    One and done because my partner will never carry the same mental and physical load when it comes to taking care of this child

    @mmtb34 I don’t want to disclose exactly what because I don’t want this getting back but it was a labour intensive offshore venture for a period of time
  9. K

    One and done because my partner will never carry the same mental and physical load when it comes to taking care of this child

    @kelleybee Agree wholeheartedly. Logistics are quite the bastard to iron out at the moment. It’s on the horizon if circumstances don’t change after being addressed. I don’t know if you’re a Taylor Swift fan but to summarize - “baby love I think I’ve been a little too kind”
  10. K

    One and done because my partner will never carry the same mental and physical load when it comes to taking care of this child

    @cookiedough7177 Basically all of that. He’s been laid off since January, which made me have to short my mat leave and go back to work a month early because we would have been destitute if not - so earner, childcare the majority of the time, maid and cook. Things will be sorted one way or...
  11. K

    One and done because my partner will never carry the same mental and physical load when it comes to taking care of this child

    My child is reaching a year now and I’m so dissatisfied in my relationship with my SO since EVERYTHING FALLS TO ME. Weaponized incompetence doesn’t even begin to scratch the surface of where we are. I have to ask him to do everything, and when I do, there is a MILLION follow up questions. Ask...
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