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@tonipraise Not at all, we went to birthing classes together and everything I knew her plans and when somone is begging for somone to kill them because they would rather die than go on in labor, I would say the last resort epidural that was discussed would be a viable option. She was really...

@sarahend There was no dr, it was a midwive and a student midwive. The main one kept saying your almost ready to push, your in the transition, your almost there. They said the same agrovating things for 8hours, Ithe cervical lop issue and the babies position issue wasn't noticed untill the end...

@shammarnele I wad trying to say that in the labor room and the midwives kicked me out

@antiheteronormativity We went to birthing class for 2 months once a week. It didn't prepare either of us one bit. Weirdly the birthing instructor lady didn't mention the risks of the epideral. She just explained how it works and what was in it.

@lostandfound510 Well that's really upsetting to hear, her worry wasn't even justified

@sophialkw I could be wrong but my wife said something about there being a chance the baby comes out paralyzed. But that is extremely rare, it would happen if the epidural wad injected and flushed into the main blood supply instead of the spinal cord, and then it goes to the baby and causes...

@kennha06 Exactly what happened!

@fireheartis1 Exactly! I was trying to reason and point this out to the midwives and she kicked me out

@knish I attended birthing classes and thought I was prepared to see what I saw. But it went way longer than I ever thought it would. I was expecting 24hours birth, maybe 36hours if it's really long, but not 52. After about 40hours of watching the one you love go through hell, you start to lose it.

So 2 days ago my wife gave birth to a healthy beautiful girl. That part was great and I amcso happy to have her but i must say I was not at alll ready for what labour would be like as a man satching my wife go through the worst pain imaginable. She originaly wanted an at home birth and might of...