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@sam77 I read your edits. If your husband thinks the boundaries are all you and you're the one moving the goalposts then that's actually good news. Sounds like you make the calls so you get to have your mom around if you want to. Thank him for supporting you. Though there does seem to be...

@sam77 Has your husband never stuck his foot in his mouth? I do it all the time. Say something and then immediately think, "oops". All we can do is try our best and if someone else thinks our best isn't good enough then they are the problem. There are so many grandmas on Reddit who purposely...

@sam77 I think you should get your mom to help and I agree with others saying that your husband sounds like he's overreacting to small things with your mom. I have advice regarding the diet culture situation. Talk to your mom about it beforehand, set the boundary that she shouldn't get into...

@ava1453 So I'm a little extra when it comes to laundry. I have 3 different load types for just the adult clothes: regular clothes, undergarments, and delicates. The kids' clothes. Sheets. Kitchen and hand towels. Bath towels. Cloth diapers. Dog towels and rugs. So in all that's 9 different...

@debus It's hard to give advice without knowing if your husband is doing this on purpose or is just unsure what to do. At some point I made it super clear to my husband what my expectations were and he could respond if he wanted something different. For me it was simple. If he was home he was...