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@jeremymeeft Awwww!

@justneed2talk Yeah, that's why I stayed put in childcare once SO was certain he wanted to work in Law Enforcement, I knew when we were having kids we'd have no ability to rely on his schedule lining up right.

@justneed2talk Yeah, he really needs to think about what he wants to do before he dedicates a bunch of time and money to get a degree he may not need.

@justneed2talk That makes a lot of sense then! PhD is a big thing that will take a lot of time and effort, and having to juggle that with a child will not be easy. My SO is in police academy and so he doesn't plan to go past his BA. I do want to go back for my Masters in Guidance Counseling, but...

@justneed2talk Ah, makes sense. SO and I are 25, and I'm done with schooling and he's finishing this semester. Our big problem is we should have children sooner rather than later since autism runs very strongly in his family but it only happens when the older the parents are (30s+), so I want to...

@justneed2talk Wow, I don't know if I could handle that. My fiance knew from the moment we started dating that I wanted kids and that having none (or adopting even) was a deal breaker for me. Luckily, he's very much excited about having a little one of our own, though he doesn't mind the idea of...

@fallenwalker I'm on birth control, which I have to be on regardless of sex due to my PCOS, since it helps my body break down cysts that I get a lot. Both my significant other and I hate sex with condoms to the point we'd rather just not have it. We don't even use the pullout method while on the...

@anna888 Definitely. I told him as much, I think he's more upset with himself because then the pill fucked up my stomach and made me cramp really bad so he felt bad about it. He's such a sweetheart.

@asdf415 I have a lot of people telling me I'm so lucky, and like, I won't say I'm UNlucky, I love them both already so much, but God it adds a lot of extra physical and mental stress to it

@lindseyh My grandfather took care of us in a lot of ways, especially once he found out we were having trouble buying enough food. He was older (my mom was his youngest), so when she'd take him to the store, he'd pick up a bunch of extra stuff for her to take home, and while he didn't spoil us...

@lindseyh Through elementary school, I was in all sorts of after-school activities, but when The Thing happened, that stopped. Luckily my grandfather offered to pay for recreation soccer (it was only $50 i think?) but I appreciated it so much.

@asdf415 You're in good company, I'm 31 weeks tomorrow with twins and they're both 3.5 lbs.

@lindseyh Exactly! My parents were middle class, but my dad suffered a huge business loss when I was at the end of elementary school and when my mom was pregnant with my little sister. For about five years we didn't eat consistently and were worried we'd become homeless. I don't want my kids to...

First post, so I'm sorry if I break any rules (I clicked on the guidelines but it was deleted so?). This is mostly just a vent, with some advice desired. Fiance (FDH) and I have been together for three years now, engaged for one year. FDH is finishing up police academy and looking for a job. I...