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@neo1314 If I were in that position, cruel as it is I would never allow myself to miss out on having a child if at all possible. I think I'd honestly try marriage counselling first (in case she changes her mind) but ultimately divorce if she didn't want it because you can't force someone to want...

@aihi Take it all. I took a similar amount. If you don't, you won't be looking back at it 30 years from now when your kid is all grown up, thinking "gee I'm glad I worked those extra months".

@younglite Yeah I don't think you should even bring it up with her LOL. I recommend waiting. It depends so much on the kid and your wife but maybe wait until they are 6mo or preferably 1yo. Also make sure you are also offering her a week off too, or something equivalent if that isn't...