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@puresmile I know I’ll be 100% available for the first 12-14 weeks but after that I go back to college. I want to take as much load as I can off my BM while I’m home.

@kayblay This is actually my state of mind/POV as well. I know he won’t physically remember but the “vibe” between us will. I know it won’t be the same but I know I’ll be there matter what to make sure our bond is as strong as possible

@kayblay I completely understand they are fully dependent at that stage and that’s what I want him to be (comfortable and trusting) but I doubt being away can coincide with building this trust

@pennsylmark Thank you. I look forward to seeing what paths I take

@tegbaker42 Birth mother/babys mother

@redrose1 I’ll definitely look into it. I’m currently business admin looking to change into finance next semester

@redrose1 If the connection between me and him is on the line then there is only one choice I could make and that’s to move closer so seeing him won’t be as hard as it’s looking to be. I’m open to hear whatever it is you have to say about my situation.

@lloyd81 I know if I leave I won’t come back as I’m not some school lover. Many have suggested dropping out and getting into trades but I want that to be my last option. 2/3. I’ve been around the a few different countries but I’ve never lived away from home. I know now my circumstances mean...

@rambabumasa Very true. It’s hectic to be in a position to not know what’s next and what the best course of action might be

@mundagurra AMAZINGLY PUT. I agree completely and I’ll have to make hard choices soon because I can’t have 100% of both parenthood and college. I’m set on not being a deadbeat because I can’t live with that. My priorities are a mess and I plan devoting time to understanding what it is I really...

@mundagurra I feel as if a gap year is unnecessary. A more viable option would be to transfer closer to home and switch to part time so I can work when I’m not in class and then spend my off time with him. Completely leaving school to me is not an option right now. These next 3 years are years...

@debbiezaina Cooperating with an ex is the biggest hurdle but to be fair I’m less worried about how she’ll interact with me and more so interested to see how she will portray and treat me in front of our kid. I know nothing in my life is more valuable than him and I want her to know I feel that...

@debbiezaina I can transfer but I am not willing to take a gap as I’m almost done with my first year already. I would transfer closer to home (currently 1:30 drive) but my life long dream has been to go to college and be away

Like the title suggest my ex and I are expecting in early June. I want to know what kind of activities I can do with my BM and son to strengthen both connections. I’m wondering about this early because I have 3 more years of college to go and I’m away. I know the first 2 years are the most...