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    Ugh the ongoing debate

    @reporter94 Yes.. I completely get that. Between my siblings and my parents both struggling immensely with addiction , there was no one on one time, not to mention a ton of other issues. I think it’s largely why I love the dynamic of one kid and two parents , we can just give so much love and...
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    Ugh the ongoing debate

    @reporter94 So sorry you experienced such a tough time too. It can be so difficult. I am one of 6 so to only have one seems to still surprise me. However , I do have one sibling and two close cousins who stopped after one, so it’s not unusual in my family.
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    Ugh the ongoing debate

    Overall I’m so happy with my one son. I really do love the dynamic of our family and love having so much one on one time with my son. I have have struggled quite a bit with anxiety, depression and ocd once my son start weaning. It was on and off really rough for 7 months. When my son dropped...
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    No one takes birth trauma and current financial state seriously

    @lisajaner Hi! I’m just finding this group and reading so many posts. I’m so sorry about your birth trauma and pp journey for you and your baby. I too and very afraid of conceiving again after dealing with a lot of birth trauma. I have no true advice for you, other than your feelings are so so...
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    For those who have weaned before.

    @piggy476 When you were down to just night feeds did you end up just stopping altogether. Or did you do every other night , or anything like that?
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    Added a second looking for stories

    @staystrongmama Hi, so I cannot really answer your question because I only have one. But what you have typed up, it’s like what goes on in my head over and over again when I think about having another. My emotions are similar to yours, I know I’d feel guilty about everything simultaneously. 100%...
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    For those who have weaned before.

    Ive been told over and over that when I’m done nursing I’ll get depressed. Does this happen to everyone? Is it inevitable even if you wean slowly?? I had some PPD and the thought of being depressed gives me such bad anxiety- what a vicious cycle. 🥴 my son is 21 mo and he still nurses 3/4 x a day.
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    Age Gap?

    @tiltv4 From my experience , siblings being close or not has everything to do with personalities and their upbringing and not really much to do with age.
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    OAD decision timeline

    @renette I’m 33, husband is 37. We say when he’s 40 he will get a vasectomy. But honestly, I’d be surprised if he makes it through the calendar year without getting one. I don’t want to be pregnant again and I’m pretty sick of not enjoying being intimate without constantly fearing being pregnant.
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