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@elzappozah Put yourself out there, even if it means getting out of your comfort zone. Something I’ve thought about is literally posting on here my area and scheduling a play date once the weather breaks. 😅

@alexis5 Preach! This is so me.

@littledot Your reasons an all valid, because they are YOUR reasons. All these are on my list, including PCOS. Life weight PCOS is a pain as it is, why complicate things with having another child.

@jesusnameaboveallnames I feel the same way. This is the only space where I find like-minded people.

@gtcc How can there not be financial loss? A second child would be another 2k a month when we include daycare, diapers, etc. I’m not taking away what my first child already has to give to a second is not if a second come I can take my first out of daycare and even if she’s out of daycare I...

@milandulovic Thank you, I appreciate your comment. I’m trying the best I can. Cost of living is absolutely insane and I worry about my daughter’s financial future. Unfortunately my siblings don’t have children yet and by the time one of them do, my daughter will be much older.

@chanch0 I agree with this 100%z

@srracing So sorry you are going thru that.

@lanae Right! I don’t want to put my family in a position where we would struggle, I’ve already lived that life. I want better things for my child and myself and would like to be set for retirement.

I (38F) am 95% OAD. I’m one of 3 and have great relationships with my siblings which is the only thing that doesn’t make me 100% OAD at this moment but I’m sure I’ll end up there. My parents migrated to the US when I was about 7 y/o. Growing up we struggled financially, grew up poor, didn’t...

@muya Have you checked out the One and Done page? You will probably find it very helpful and give you some comfort on the decision.