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    Overprotective mom?

    @laurapalooza I also am very impressed by how well u seem to be dealing with what life has thrown at you. For what it’s worth, I find it very commendable that you choose to remain a constant in your children’s lives and seem to be adamant about maintaining some sense of normalcy through what is...
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    Overprotective mom?

    @laurapalooza Very well stated. I don’t have any say nor do I want it. I just fear he will hurt the kids again. But they are very aware. And I didn’t seek any counseling. I haven’t had time to dwell. The past is the past. I definitely have anger and resentment but that’s my issue. I appreciate...
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    Overprotective mom?

    I have given this woman ample opportunities. The last time we spoke she told me she was getting a restraining order and I later realized she only used me to show him I said that and to make her seem “loyal”. The main issue is the pit and the lack of adulthood that I see. I will do whatever it...
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    Overprotective mom?

    @laurapalooza And frankly, this has nothing to do with my restraining order. I don’t see him. Never ever would. My children are young adults and r at that age where I teeter on wanting to protect them and knowing I have to let them make mistakes. I hope that makes sense. I wrestled with how to...
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    Overprotective mom?

    @laurapalooza I consider him a threat against ME. He served three years for domestic violence. My daughter was on the OOP but asked to be removed once she started seeing him. He and I cannot be cordial. That ship has sailed. I am trying to please everyone and do the right thing. and me fighting...
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    Overprotective mom?

    @laurapalooza So we have had quite a rocky past. I am have full custody and an active restraining order against my ex. But he was a wonderful father prior to drugs taking over his life. I cannot allow my feelings interfere with my children wanting some sort of normalcy with him. Every part of me...
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    Overprotective mom?

    Am I wrong for not wanting my children to engage with their father and his on and off gf of only a year? I have hard time even allowing my kids to see their father. He helps zero with them financially and I found out a month ago (last time she saw her dad) that he and his dysfunctional gf gave...
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