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    Mother-in-law offered to come stay with us for the first week or two and I feel guilty that I don’t really want that. Am I being unreasonable?

    @mousa She lives 20 minutes away! What an absurd suggestion from her. Tell her she can come for a short daytime visit when you are ready for visitors. If that is 2 weeks or 12 weeks it is completely your call. I had zero visitors with my first (because of the pandemic) and I was so grateful for...
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    I’m scared of my husband going back to work on Monday

    @marialavender I hear you. With PPD and PTSD the cries were very triggering for me. She’s just over 2 now and though the tantrums suck, I way prefer this stage. It sounds cliche but it really does get better. And know that you don’t have to feel bad for hating parts of a stage. You’re in a...
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    Age gap; 3 or 4 years?

    @syrak I have a twin brother and a brother 5 years older than me and I’m much closer to my older brother. Just to say sometimes personalities make a huge difference.
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    I’m scared of my husband going back to work on Monday

    @marialavender Wow that really takes me back. I had such a similar experience. I stopped breastfeeding when my husband went back to work but forced myself to keep pumping for months and months out of guilt. I don’t recommend that. It made me miserable. It sounds like it might be good to talk...
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