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@morgannicole555 I have a girl and two boys and she is the easiest one. She is a bright star in my life!

@morgannicole555 Just do it. 💕

@morgannicole555 2-3 was a breeze. 1-2 was the hardest for me but that may have been because I had my second right when Covid hit. My third is a sweet heart little boy, and I cry when I think about how we almost closed the door after 2!! The older kids are very sweet with him! Now we are even...

@dougw59 Well, thanks for your honesty. lol.

@favouronum Where did I say I would have a baby “just because I can?” This is obviously a decision I am not taking lightly and something I am struggling with.

@messa Lots of factors going on here, OP. I think you should go for at least 1 more- just worry about 1 at a time. Thinking about 4 doesn’t make sense when you only have 1 right now. Maybe 2 is your perfect number. That way, your daughter will have a sibling but you won’t be stretched too thin...

@john416 Thank you 🥰

@fateh I truly hope you find success and a bfp soon. All the best.

@fateh I’m very sorry about your losses. That is heartbreaking. If you don’t mind me asking, are you still continuing to try? I never thought 35 would be the age our fertility would suddenly take a nose dive. Extremely depressing.

@elly1 I loved this article, I remember reading it when it first came out. And it was emotional reading it again now that I have this monumental decision to make. Thank you for the suggestion.

@emm3635 We already discussed this and decided no, if it doesn't happen naturally we just will be done. It is not feasible financially and my OB said IVF doesn't even work well with Diminished Ovarian Reserve anyways because it's hard to harvest enough healthy eggs.

@wintersaber7 That is profound. And so true. I am one of those people who will never truly feel “done” even after 10 kids. lol

@perryac Great point! So true

@katrina2017 Thank you for responding. Finances are not an issue for us. And yes you make some excellent points. I have always had horrible existential dread so I am wondering if that is rearing it’s ugly head again. 😢

@nansi Also thank you for telling me I am not crazy. I appreciate that more than words can say

@daniel1986 G, B, B.

@bebe107 Thank you for your response! So diminished ovarian reserve means I have fewer eggs. Not that the eggs that I do have left are lower quality. Luckily I am already eating a healthy diet, at a healthy weight and I’m on several vitamins and supplements including coQ10 and a prenatal. My OB...

@nansi Yes, it’s such a tough decision. You probably have more time to figure it out. You don’t have the ticking clock like I do. :( and your husband is younger. Mine is approaching 50 at this point…

@sashafierce I never thought I would be approaching menopause at 35…. No one does…. I still feel young!! Menopause wasn’t even on my radar, I thought I had some sort of thyroid issue or something- It’s completely f*cked with my sense of self and who I thought I was. Even my OB says I am very...

Should I go for a 4th? I am not even sure which sub I should be posting on… Trying for a Baby? Parenting in Bulk? Should I have another? Mods, please delete if this is not the appropriate sub. I am 35 with 3 kids ages 2,3 and 5. 2 boys, and the oldest is a girl. My husband (47) and I were...