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    So tired of being gaslighted when I say I had a traumatic birthing experience *TRIGGER WARNING*

    @hyacynthia To your friend who was so blaise about your ordeal: never compare traumas, it always leaves someone feeling invalidated. What may have been a super scary thing for you may not have affected her the same, and vice versa, it doesn't invalidate the person's feelings or the long term...
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    Stop f*cking telling me I’ll change my mind

    @i_love_you_lots Hopefully. I always get told "so they have a sibling/friend" (neither me nor my husband are close with ours) or "so they aren't alone when you die" or some other crap
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    Stop f*cking telling me I’ll change my mind

    @i_love_you_lots My response: why is it ok for someone to say they want 2 or 3 or even 5 kids, but it's not ok for me to say I want 1? Am I not a responsible enough adult to know my own mind? I've lived independently for 16 years, paid all my own bills, gone to college, served in the military...
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