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@proud2lovejesus No I could have worded that more clearly.

@thegirlwithnousername I definitely didn’t want her to stay with a cheater! I’m angry and disappointed because he treated her poorly and as you said, in a roundabout way us! At home I’m being supportive of her because it’s her breakup not mine. That’s why I posted here. I have to hold it all...

@katrina2017 Yes! That would have been a bad outcome. Im ultimately glad this is the outcome, but I’d rather he not have cheated.

@ricksamuel I know she’s not supposed to soothe me. I came here to vent. I spent all night talking with her last night about her feelings and supporting her.

@angelh0809 My husband always did. He said it didn’t seem like he loved her and was just using her because he doesn’t want to be alone. Because they stayed together so long, after a couple years, we started to accept him and be part of the family, but my husband always said something wasn’t...

@mithrashorus I think I mistyped because He Begged her not to break up. Not me.

@seangibbons That’s why I’m here. To her face it’s all about her but I needed a space for me as well. Her siblings have also circled the wagons and all of her friends, so she’s getting a lot of support.

@alanacrystal142 It suuuccckkks. The worst part of parenting is their heartbreak over anything. When they’re little it’s dropping their ice cream. When they’re older it’s not getting into the college they really wanted or this romantic heart break. (Except of course truly tragic things like...

@charger I’m trying to not be too involved which is why I posted here. I needed a place to vent about it, so I can just give her the support she wants. I am happy she found out now and not after they got married or had a child.

@twinkyofalla Thank you for this and I’m sorry this is how you were treated. I absolutely support my daughter and do not want her to go back to him. He has no character. I mourn for her and for what we had as a family with him and how duped I feel, but I want her to know she’s our number one.

@mirbaki Oh I blocked him on Facebook already and will not contact him or his mom. They are done.

@lemons2lemonade We did tell her he’s not welcome in our home anymore. That we can’t be around him. I don’t want her to travel with him but can’t out my foot down. I did offer to pay her for her lost expenses that she can’t get refunded if that’s the problem. I won’t tell her to move out...

@wrighteer474 She chose to not go with him and she has blocked all contact with him. She realized that she can’t move on if she tries to stay friends.

@reasonoverfaith I agreed with that. She decided not to go!

@amy2233 The issue is cost. She bought the ticket early so it was cheaper. The ticket is now $1100 just to fly there. I will happily pay for the original ticket and let it die and then she can plan another trip with her sister (they’re close). The other issue is language. He speaks Japanese and...

I get that they are young, but the way he did this is what makes me so upset. All the time he was gone and cheating on her, he was also making plans for their future. She is supposed to go in a trip with him next month that is non refundable. Right now she says they’re going to stay friends and...

@davedarcy That’s why I’m also trying not to smear him too much in front of her! I’m afraid that will happen and I don’t want her to hide it from me. He will never win my trust again.

@giltrose I’m so angry and disappointed! His mom is more upset than I am. She loves my daughter and while he was gone, my daughter would go over and visit her and they’d go shopping or out to dinner together.

@giltrose Oh I’m not being angry around her! I am checking on her. She lives at home and is actually pretty sick right now, so we’re focusing on the cold. I’m on here so I can be angry somewhere!

I’m so upset and angry. She’s an adult but lives at home. I resisted getting to know him at first because I didn’t think they’d stay together long term. Then they talked about moving in together and getting married so I got to know him. He became like a son. He would text my husband for fatherly...