@paker I forgot to mention I bought smart lightbulbs for our whole house. They automatically get dimmer and more orange as the night goes on so by the time bedtime rolls around the lights are about as bright as candles. I think this has really helped provide a visual cue that it's bedtime and...
@paker Maybe it's just me but this nighttime routine is waaaay too complicated and you're letting your toddler run the show. Keep it simple and stay strong in your boundaries. If he struggles with transitions cut down on how many transitions you are doing. You have like 5 transitions in a 4 hour...