@1stjohn0666 If he’s a resident this might be his only time available to see his family. Residency is temporary but awful. I’d consider that after he finishes training there will be a lot more room for him to see them AND you guys to take nuclear family trips.
@1stjohn0666 This is not a temporary situation. His hours as a surgical attending will be just as bad as residency - if not worse. You’ll need extra help or a divorce - the choice is yours.
