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@ben_joy It's not easy at all, but I imagine trying something consistently might be more beneficial for your sleep in the longer term. Maybe it will be easier in the new place to start a new routine?

@saveoursoul You've already got some pretty good feedback and things to think about. I'd apologise to your co-parent about how you went about it and try to start again. - you'd like to talk about communication - you'd like to talk about child support - you thought this might be easier in...

@ben_joy I imagine having a doula following a different routine in a different space could be confusing, although I suppose it's not dissimilar to a child moving between parents or houses. What option are you leaning towards?

@thaniya Would he consider writing letters or making videos to send? If he could do that consistently for a little while (say once a month) it then might provide some evidence of consistency without risk to your son's wellbeing? It might be something to try even in the days after his monthly...

@junipermints I can appreciate his want to keep a consistent schedule, that's how my brain works it too, and I like to plan in advance, but it does sound sad for your daughter. Would he consider seeing her for part of his weekend if she isn't available for the full weekend? Like could he pick...