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@sheron86 This is one of my hesitations in going to court. I don’t want to add an order with crazy restrictions also considering we’ve had very little conflict. I also think the non-default parent would find a way to weaponize it in the long run too. This season of our coparenting relationship...

@jlamb1 Yeah I try to make exchanges as quick as possible, little to no communication outside of Hi & Bye. I just have to do a better job of communicating the boundaries that are needed and sticking to them like you said.

@summer65 It sucks to had to go through this w/ someone you considered a best friend at one point. The trauma and pain that you associate with your CP is something I understand far too well. Kudos to you for having a plan and executing! Wishing you love and luck on your journey!

@tabitha1234 School pick up is hard b/c of distance and I don’t trust CP will make it on time. You’re right though. At some point I’m just going to have to communicate that I need space and let that be the end of it.

@liaamsmithh95 Definitely is that type. The CS we have in place was decided upon while we were together and once we were in front of the mediator, CP was so angry and agitated. I couldn’t understand why given the $$ was coming right back to our household. I know if I take that route it’ll be a...

@billyuk1989 This sounds like a step in the right direction. As much as I’d prefer to keep the courts out of it, it’s likely my best bet. Thankfully, I’ve reached out for help w/ pick ups and drop offs, that 3rd party it just hasn’t started yet. Hopefully we make it happen sooner than later...

@billyuk1989 Not exactly. There’s a child support order but that was done while we were still together. Haven’t been back to court at all since then.

@srg I don’t have much help by way of 3rd parties. CP & I live 1.5 hrs apart and we meet at a truck stop that’s ~ 45 min away. I have one person that offered to help but unfortunately they’re not always available.

Looking for advice and I’m spilling the beans I guess. My coparent(CP) and I were together for a total of 7 years. Met in college, had a baby, got engaged & then they cheated in the absolute worst ways (with an ex, SW’s, co-workers, etc). I called off the engagement and never looked back. For...