@alaina It sounds like you’re judging these moms pretty harshly. It’s okay to have different interests and ask about their interests. It seems very odd to dismiss them because they like to run and want to fix their porch
@randall1967 It was inappropriate of her to say you should get a nanny, but it’s very common for a company to deny moving to part time. They want a full time employee, not a part time one. This isn’t unreasonable