@driltech I'm sorry OP. Old school chinese elders can suck and they're pretty set in their ways and double down when called out.
If your grandma doesn't do that in public due to face, I'd move all baby / grandmas interactions to public locations moving forward. Otherwise heavily monitor all...
@tisanewseason I'm in the same boat as you at 8 months and we get the same comments. Every nap is a suckling contact nap and its what works for us other than carrier naps when we're out and about. Hugs and solidarity to you, mama.