@stevo1k Yes my friend always talks about how mean her grandparents and mother were to her and stated that is just how things are done from those generations.
She was left with a lot of trauma from it. So glad your parents are supportive and that you've come out of this so strong ❤️
@heyimeugene Exactly this. I don't care if it's cultural (my best friend is Chinese and this sounds exactly like something she'd tell me her grandmother did). That is a threat of physical abuse no matter how you slice it and she is a danger to your child physically and mentally. He's only 2.5 😔...