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@jaroslawny Yes!! Since hitting the one year mark I feel like I’m seen as defective, to piggyback on your comment about being pitied. I think I’m just mostly calloused by now lol

@bwo Yes! Idk how but all my friends got pregnant with theirs on the first try. “Oops! We weren’t even trying!” You just wanna smack them, lol

@midnight_moon I’ve had blood work done and it says everything’s normal. I know I’m due for another one but it’s been busy lately!!

@isaacateko Usually I use “when my body stops being infertile” and it shuts them up pretty quick. Like, stop asking those questions. People are too damn comfortable!

@traceyeloise Like, “Mom, I wish I could tell you”. I feel that pressure too, except I’ve got a huge family and only three of us are married and in a place to have kids so my aunts and other family members are always asking if we’re having babies soon. It’s wild the things people say and they...

@paul999 It’s scary being vulnerable with anyone especially when most of us have experiences like this with people. Sometimes I don’t even know why I still try to talk about it.

@brentley4u Oh that’s horrible. I can’t even imagine how hurt you must feel. I’m so sorry

@grenmile Ugh that’s poopy. I’m sorry.

@sugiyarto Omg right?? Ugh I think we have the same mom!

@mygretgurl I’d turn around and sell them or just send them back to her. My mom has sent me links to books and said “So-and-so read this and got pregnant!!” Like what do you even say to that? I know my mom has the best of intentions but damn it hurts

@elevangeliodehoy I’m sorry. That’s so insensitive. It boggles my mind that people who have had kids don’t get how it works

@tormentedsinner Good to know! Thank you! You’re so helpful 😊

@tormentedsinner I’m currently in the process of switching doctors and getting all my info released to the new hospital. My old OB had no concerns about it, and said he wouldn’t do anything until we were at 1 yr TTC (which I know is the guideline) but at the time we were TNP

@tormentedsinner And by irregular cycles, I haven’t seen a period since Nov 2022 so I think we’re beyond irregular 😞

@tormentedsinner I haven’t tried OPKs but I have tried temping and it’s very inconclusive. My temps are all over the place and nothing ever happens. I’ve tracked everything from moods to CM and nothing seems to give. Ugh, mothers in law. That was a terrible thing for her to do.

@concettacarpenter I’m sure her thought process was wishing she had an excuse to buy those cute pants. They were super cute. But sometimes i think it slips her mind that having babies and talking about them is triggering. When we were at the 4 month mark I was down in the dumps because I was so...

@masterod Ugh you’d think your mom would understand! I’m sorry she diminished your struggle. You’re too sweet, thank you! Definitely feeling less alone and sad now but man sometimes it’s rough out here

@lanmind Honestly she’s never said anything like that before other than the go-to ‘just relax’ type comments several months ago. And I did tell her to cool it because having babies just doesn’t work that way. I can’t relax a baby into my uterus. Lol

@saknyc Oh that’s awful. That comment was so selfish. They don’t take into account that we’re trying to accept that we might never be parents 🥺

@lunarrise Thanks so much. That’s very helpful