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@walkedthroughthefire One hundred percent agree. The impatience is hard, but I'm trying to accept that every day/week is just helping me get my body and mind right for when we do this for real for real. And yes! Have loved B&T for so so long.

@walkedthroughthefire Thank you for sharing! I keep being like "do I have fibroids or something they didn't catch?" "are my hormones off?" Goddamn it's so frustrating! But we will get there. I saw something online that I loved, which was "think of this as a starter pregnancy as your body gets...

@lapitaga Thanks for sharing, completely agree that the most apt word is "frustrating." I'm so grateful for this sub and knowing we're not alone.

@jeremyfromisrael It's so frustrating to not have answers. I'm feeling ok healing-wise (yay for therapy and also wine) but it's hard knowing that we're months behind where we thought we'd be, regardless of when we do get pregnant again.

@exinanition Thank you for your empathy, totally summed up how I'm feeling.

@sue4jesus Thank you so much. I know that if we were to have another loss more extensive testing would be done (says my obgyn, and me) but right now it's so hard to feel like I've done enough to prevent this from happening again.

@westtmd Thank you so much for your kind words and support. At this moment the biggest fear I have is that some undiagnosed issue is going to cause another pregnancy to go the same way. I know it's irrational, but I can't shake it. I'm sure every woman who's been through this feels the same or...

Hi all, On 4/1, I found out at my 7w sonogram there was no heartbeat. Opted for a D&C, which I had on 4/4. Healing well, spotting as normal, very limited pain/cramping. Because partner and I are both data-driven, we opted to get carrier screening done at that appointment and to have the tissue...