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    Is having a second kid really worth all the trouble? It looks exponentially harder to go from 1 to 2 kids than zero to 1.

    @christopherpriestley In my experience, yes, though it was hard for a while.
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    Logistics going from 1 to 2

    @relizacom1987 I did this, and live in Canada too. Yay for the subsidy or I'd be totally broke right now! Keeping the eldest in childcare 3-4 full days a week was a must for my sanity. Also it made it possible for me to get some one-on-one time with my newborn, which I loved and otherwise would...
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    God I hate my 5 year old right now

    @poweredbyjesus I have a 2 and 3 year old and this comment makes me sad because I'm fully relying on 5 being the easy year...
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    I don’t think I can cope with a 3rd, and I’m heart broken even though it is the right decision.

    @mairie Who knows how you will feel in 2 years. Accept where you are right now, and take things day by day! I was you a year ago, and am starting to feel like maybe it could be possible...but we might still wait another year to give us more time to enjoy our two now!
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    when did you have your first?

    @uniquescreenname I'm 33 and just had my second. Debating a third but the second was so much harder on me! I hope you can get your strength back ❤️
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    Solo parents, would you have another?

    @lovethyneighbourasthyself Honestly, do it! The quality time with you're baby and the opportunity to nap are priceless. And the toddler gets to stay in a routine with their friends 👌👌👌
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    Should we have a third?

    @callum7430 Wow I could have written this, but I'm a year behind you I think in when I'd like to start trying. You should have the third and then tell me how it goes 🤣
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    We have everything working smoothly now... should we rock the boat or be OAD?

    @manishk012 True about how they seem so sweet at a year, and then become toddlers 🤣. I think this is why the two year age gap is so common. They trick us!!! Mine are 21 months apart (got pregnant again at 12 months pp). Hoooonestly it just depends on your kids with respect to how it goes. My...
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    Decision taking over my life

    @chopper1690 In response to some of your fears (from my perspective as a mother of two): - maybe stop thinking about it for a while, set a day to start thinking about it again - 2 is more work, but you got through the hard phase once and you can again. I found it definitely busier with 2 for the...
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    I don’t think I can have a second without my village

    @hteezy Man these posts make me so sad. I feel the same about having a third. Are there any moms of small children out there that aren't just scraping by? I've been wondering about this a lot lately.
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