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@arseniusthesilent Regardless of your "reason" for being OAD, if you make a decision which doesn't affect others, they shouldn't comment on it. I had an amazing birth, very quick, no drugs, I did tear but it healed well, and I'm OAD. The doctor shouldn't laugh regardless

@rosemeka13 A lot depends on the child, how good Christmas is for them (no offence intended, some kids care more about toys than others, I'm not saying you don't make her Christmas magical!), but also how old they are. My 5 year old was quite excited this Christmas but last Christmas she was...

@mangolime17 just googled- Hitler had siblings. Obviously things are lot more complex than "siblings good, only child bad" lol

@joyathome Also with that, your child will choose how much effort they want to put into others- with siblings this isn't as easy. I know someone (we'll call her G) who is in her 30s and has a disabled younger sister (C). She loves her, she adores her, she watches her on weekends to give her...

@joyathome with the 'will we regret not having another one?' thing, I completely understand and fully agree, however I think "if its been 5 years and I dont regret it now, why would I regret it after another 5 years?". The way I see it, she will choose her own friends / boyfriend / girlfriend...

@joyathome this is one of the big reasons I am now happy with our OAD decision. My principle to almost everything in life is "If I'm gonna do it, I'm gonna do it properly". So I'm either super "on it", or I don't care about it lol, there is no middle ground for me. I want to be the best possible...