@manitouscott What I fail to understand is people who show-off or act all smug about getting pregnant first month.
It's total coincidence you moron, you didn't do anything to earn it.
@magicfeather I just don't think we should judge other parents for the educated and informed decisions they make.
I wouldn't judge someone for formula feeding their baby, because they are doing their best. I would judge for skipping vaccinations because that's just idiotic.
@s3anreilly Exactly. Infertility is something that people bizarrely romanticise. Imagine trying to do that with a different medical issue like cancer.... youd look like a nutter.
@blessedbythebest88 Changing the baby was easy- but I couldn't do it on the floor because I couldn't get back up again- I needed a changing table.
I took care of the baby fine after my section. We often went on walks but I needed dad to sort out the pram.
@katrina2017 I wouldn't go to the UK. Healthcare here is nonexistent and getting worst. The economic crisis is pushing us out of the list of first world countries.
@marineimaging I graduated onto trying a year ago and we have had no luck since. I am going through fertility treatment now and of course I'll take anything, but I am low key hoping for twins. I know it's more likely now.
Do most people wait until after they are pregnant,or have you already picked out names?
I have a boys name sorted- Ash Eric
For a girl I have lots of options- Elia, Evelyn, Emelyn, Eden, Briony or Amara. I am leaning toward Elia Amara.
@seanieshamrocks Have you looked into any childcare for the 3 year old? She should be eligible soon for the 30 hours a week?
I'm still sending my toddler to nursery after my newborn comes, I don't feel like her days would be enriching enough stuck at home with me and a baby.