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    Annoying comments about my son being small

    @pentie2003 I struggled a lot when my kid was born, until he was like 1.5 because of his size. Him not growing was constantly on my mind, my milk production never was very good, we had to supplement, blah blah blah. He's an okay eater now, but it's never easy either. One of our neighbors has a...
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    My mom died, I inherited her shares to the family company and my uncle says I’m not ready to lead after 13 years of hard work

    @imran520 This is the way! Get that leach out of the building, get a lawyer involved and make sure firing him is airtight. Everyone is better off without him.
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    2 siblings vs only child learning a second language

    @christianguy2121 You got to adjust your attitude. That is not the right way to frame the issue. You want two kids and you want to teach them both languages. What they do with that knowledge is up to them. Forcing them to speak a certain language won't give you the results you desire, it will...
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    Question about main language in extended family

    @purnhart There's nothing wrong with using English while you're at home and your native language with your child around family. Unless you live in a household with your extended family the amount of time you'll spend together is small and won't influence your child's language acquisition. It...
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    Names pronounced differently by both parents?

    @peakdixon We picked something that works in both languages. That's what we preferred, but it's not set in stone. If we had a girl, it would be a slightly different pronunciation. YMMV based on the language combo. There is a website that shows you names that exist in both languages, it was...
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    Is it normal for a multilingual child to learn to read slower?

    @tomorrow In Germany, the kids do not learn to read or write until first grade. No teaching of sight words or anything like that in Kindergarten. When they start school they only have to be able to write their name, hold a pen correctly and that's it. The primary school teachers actually prefer...
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    How to combat sudden drop in exposure in the minority language?

    @aldredian At some point kids will make their own choices and if you live and learn the majority of the time in one language you will naturally gravitate towards that. You have to remember that you can't force anyone to speak a certain language, just encouragement
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    How to combat sudden drop in exposure in the minority language?

    @aldredian So my kid was in daycare since he was 12 mo old. We live in Germany, his languages are German and English. I'm German, husband is from Canada. So from early on, his exposure to English was his dad and when me and my husband talk to each other. We have books in both languages at home...
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    L/R issue only in one language?

    @olufem In Spanish it's called a 'rolling r', it's a different sound. I can do it, because my mother tongue also has it. Other people in my Spanish class could not for the life of them, it just wouldn't roll off their tongue 😛 I'm sure he'll get it eventually!
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    Trilingual toddler (not OPOL) - not sure if we're going in the right direction

    @godmadegorillas Of course they'll learn (and many refugee kids go to special classes to get caught up on German first), but the expectation is that a kid that grows up in Germany speaks German well enough to follow the curriculum in 1st grade. That's when they teach reading and writing and if...
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    Trilingual toddler (not OPOL) - not sure if we're going in the right direction

    @godmadegorillas It's fine. There is absolutely no reason to focus on English, she'll learn that at school soon enough. Source: am German. I reached English fluency learning it at school (only started in grade 7!). OK, I also married a Canadian and half my friends are foreigners, but still. You...
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    Trilingual toddler (not OPOL) - not sure if we're going in the right direction

    @relle25 This! English is like the absolute least important right now. It's part of the curriculum of every middle/high school, doesn't matter where you live in Germany. Or Europe, for that matter. The teachers will do their job and English is cool anyway. Czech on the other hand will be an...
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    24 months - when to intervene?

    @andylondon I also panicked around that time. But he was above 50 words for his 2 year checkup, so he technically was on track. Yeah, he's almost 6 now and speaking in endless sentences and both his languages are strong and ever growing. He was just more interested in gross and fine motor...
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