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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @lovelyaudreanna This is a good perspective and one that I appreciate. And I do love her, very much. She hasn't had the easiest time of it, so I don't want to put more on her inadvertently. I will put together some little things for her and slip her some cash when I can. Thank you so very much...
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @robind Oh I have. That's all part of it. I've been talking with a therapist, my doctor, support groups, friends who are like me and a vocational rehabilitation counselor, as well as talking with my job about certain accommodations.
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @webhyd I don't really know. Time? I guess? I had sent apologies and she just finally wanted to talk. She basically said she heard what she needed to hear
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @webhyd Thank you so much! Yes! That is the plan! Things are def moving in a good direction.
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @webhyd My daughter came over yesterday. We didn't do a " thing" just a simple dinner. My youngest daughter vid chatted her and we talked for the first time in 3 yrs! I just found out that after our last big blow up ( it was pretty serious, never thought we would speak again) she got a lilac...
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @webhyd I did a little update: I thought of you so I'm glad you commented again. Thank you..
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @webhyd Ok, I'll do that specifically about her time. And you are welcome. I really appreciate your input. I truly do want her to know her time means a lot to me and just taking it out and being with me in general. Thank you so much!
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @mminer237 You are so right. And knowing my limitations and stopping has always been a struggle. I've been putting a lot of effort into it. So thank you. Imma stop stressing and enjoy it. :)
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @southernangel33 Thank you for this perspective. You are a wonderful person for doing that. And she is a wonderful person for doing what she does. Thank you for saying this. I worry about what kind of parent I was,but this is proof to me that I was ok. I appreciate you helping me see that. :)
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @eljah It made me feel a lot of things and it made me tear up. You know, in all of these responses there is one theme. Love. I've been abandoned so many times. And I would never do what others have done to me to anyone.... And due to that, it's very hard for me to accept love. I give it...
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @bobagee Hahaha I know right? It should be simple and I'm making it hard trying to understand it instead of just accepting it! Thank you for keeping it simple. You are right. That's all there is to it.
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @chriscomplex Ok. I feel better about this then. I'm not good at asking or receiving help. I feel like I should be able to do everything myself. Anyone helping me I feel like I'm being too much. And I know a lot of that has to do with the broken parts of brain. I just don't want to be a bother...
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @chriscomplex No she doesn't live with me. She did when she was pregnant and the first 6 mo after the baby. She moved across town like, 15 or so minutes away and comes over on her own. She will occasionally bring laundry, but she comes over just to spend time with me . she sees that I'm...
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @silverlightoftheworld You are good kids. You really are. I will do this. Thank you for sharing this part of your life with me. it means so much. Thank you..
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @legendarysandwich Wow! That's amazing you are doing that for them! I'm glad you enjoy it. This makes Me feel better. I'm proud of you. Thank you for sharing this with me..
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @katrina2017 I love this! My daughter has told me she likes helping me so I'm just gonna roll with it. It's true about the emotional teenage part. But she was just a good girl even through that. I'm so glad you help her. Keep being loving and amazing.
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    Do you consider it "taboo" for a boy to see the diaper changing of his baby sister?

    @knorvy10 I have a funny story about this. This was a long time ago, but my oldest son was 5 when his baby sister was born. I had her home and was talking with my son. He asked how you know if it's a boy or a girl. I weighed my options here. I could tell him that girls don't have penises but...
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @brendar7639 Thank you for your perspective. I appreciate what my daughter does so much. And I appreciate what you do. You are so good to her.I'm so proud of you for stepping up for her.
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    I ( 50 f) have a daughter ( 27 ) that has been helping me and I don't know how to feel about it.

    @amberlynnmccormick I'm glad you do the little things.I give random compliments every time I'm out. I can't help it. I see something i like or you put effort in.... I'm going to notice and say something. Maybe I have no filter but for good lol. I try to compliment men as often as I can. Don't...
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