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@zanemalindeal Both. We started the account when divorced mid 2020. Lots of stimulus checks went in as well as gift $ from family for child. It’s unclear who’s contributed exactly what without looking at deposits deeper.

@katrina2017 I mean, it’s not my money. My concern is that it’s child’s money and X took half of it with no notice or accountability to our child.

@kitty123 Yeah definitely. It was sort of a panic moment…divorce initiated in 2019 and finalized mid 2020 when things were still locked down. There was stimulus $$ to deposit and we needed a place right away. I closed the account today.

@jwb725 I suggested we change the withdrawal permissions from “or” to “and” meaning both of us would need to give permission. X’s response was to accuse me of being “difficult”. I’m not sure if I can legally request information about the account since X owns it, but it’s for child.

@hallbee66 Yeah separate accounts for child is definitely the next step. I realize they can take $, but am concerned they did without discussing anything with me. It’s not X’s $, it’s child’s. My real concern is the $ isn’t going to a college fund, but towards whatever expense X has and they’re...

@montse811 It’s a holdover from when we were married. My concern is that X stole child’s $. I’m not concerned about what they’re doing with their money, but this is child’s.

About six weeks ago X withdrew, then replaced a large sum ($2000+) in our child’s joint savings account. X messaged and said it was a bank error. Three days ago, I noticed that child’s account was again missing $, this time drained by half. This second withdrawal happened two weeks ago. All...